Kelly Rowland has a body many are envious of, but she’s jealous of others as well.
Opening up about the long-lasting changes she’s experienced since becoming mom to Titan in 2014, the singer said, “I wish that someone would invent something to take away stretch marks and cellulite.”
With a laugh she added, “If you don’t have stretch marks and cellulite after you had a baby, I really don’t like you. It’s just not fair.”
On a more serious note, Kelly Rowland went on to tell Allure, “Having a baby challenged and changed the way I looked at my body.”
And she’s now making an effort to carve out some “me time.”
“You’re making your schedule for your baby, your husband, and where do you fall into place?” she says in the magazine’s new video series. “I was like, ‘I have to give something back to myself first before I can give anything to anybody else.’ I truly believe in that…If you can’t take care of yourself, you don’t have anything else to give to anybody else. So I’m my No. 1.”
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I know Kelly was joking about not liking those who were lucky enough not to get them, but I believe her words come from a true place. I imagine she really is frustrated with them, but if she’d never said anything how many of us would have ever suspected? She’s svelte and gorgeous.
I think what I’m trying to get at is it’s interesting to hear from those who are celebrated as beautiful dealing with their own dissatisfactions. “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle,” right?
Does it give you any comfort to hear someone like Kelly is dealing with some of the same stuff you might be?
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Although she loves being a mom, Kelly Rowland has faced some struggles. Check out what else she’s had to say about the journey in our gallery of celebrity moms talking breastfeeding troubles:
"I had my heart set on breastfeeding, but I wasn't producing enough milk," Kelly Rowland told Parents magazine after welcoming her first child, a son named Titan. Sharing she eventually supplemented with formula, the singer added, "I got down on myself, which I think was mentally limiting my supply."
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"I did nipple shields, nipple guards, supplemental nursing system, it was horrible," Molly Sims said while opening up about trying to feed her son -- who was born with a tooth -- during an appearance on Anderson Live. "He was literally like a vampire on me for three months; it was unbelievable. Cut to: I'm not breastfeeding and I'm proud of it."
"When Brooks was born, my milk never came in, and I tried to breastfeed for three months," the model mom shared during another interview. "I felt awful and ashamed. I wanted to breastfeed because it’s so good for the baby, so I worked with a lactation specialist. After three months, she said, ‘You’re done. You don’t have any milk.’ I’ll try breastfeeding again, but if it doesn’t work, I won’t push it."
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"You feel guilty about every single thing, every decision you make, everything you do," Carrie Underwood told People while opening up about being a new mom to Isaiah.
When asked about breastfeeding the singer shared she was trying to keep it up for "as long as I can take it. It’s hard. My supply is pretty nil. We have to supplement with formula. I’m doing the best that I can, you know?"
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"I’m 10% breastfeeding now," Bethenny Frankel told Parade in 2010, when her daughter Bryn was 3 months old. "And I feel guilty about that and like a failure."
When Bryn was just a few weeks old, Bethenny revealed that breastfeeding was “the hardest thing I have ever done in my entire life."
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"For me, I had to have a a breast reduction in my early 20s and at that time I couldn't even fathom having children," Ricki Lake explained while talking about her breastfeeding experience with The Stir.
"I was able to breastfeed but not solely, I had to supplement. I had to have a lactation specialist come to my home and help me. I could afford one, but it was not easy for me.
"I remember feeling disappointed, like my body failed me in some way. It was hard for me. With my second son in 2001, I had donated breast milk from people sent to me in weekly jars."
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"It went without saying that I would breastfeed my kid," Elisa Donovan told People in 2014.
"I was utterly and completely unprepared for the reality that I couldn’t do it. Not only was it not working, and excruciatingly painful for me beyond anything imaginable (yes, even beyond the pain of labour), I also realised that (wait for it, this is gonna be a doozy) … I HATED IT."
The actress went on to say, "Everyone is well aware of the benefits of breastfeeding, and there is a plethora of information out there in support of it. Yet there is zero info on what to do if you are one of those women who can’t — or who chooses not to."
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Una Healey talked latching troubles with baby two during a Hello! Magazine interview by sharing, "The day my milk came in I couldn’t get Tadhg to latch on."
The Saturdays singer went on to share, "I had a bit of a meltdown, sobbing, ‘It’s only been three days, I feel like such a failure.’ But I got a breast pump and expressed three ounces. The relief was incredible."
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"It was so hard. It became stressful because I really wanted to try and breastfeed him, me and Justin were up every hour of the night," Kimberley Walsh said while talking breastfeeding struggles as part of the AOL Original series, Being Mum.
"We would squeeze out the tiniest little bit of colostrum, syringing it into his mouth, just to try and give him what he needs. "
"I think there is so much pressure on women, breastfeed, breastfeed, breastfeed," the singer added. "I just didn't want to feel like I’d given up."
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"My boobs are killing me. I feel like my nipples are going to fall off," Snooki said in 2014, shortly after welcoming daughter Giovanna.
"With Lorenzo, I didn’t actually latch on. I just did the pump, so it didn’t hurt that bad,” she went on to elaborate. "But with Giovanna, I tired to latch on at the hospital and she latched on right away. So I said, ‘You know what? Let me just do this until I get my milk in and then I’ll just go straight to pumping, but Giovanna has been on my boob every single hour for the past four days, and my nipple is going to fall off. I can’t feel it! It’s so painful, but I gotta do what I gotta do because I feel like my breast milk is the best milk for my baby."
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Ali Landry saw her hopes of longterm breastfeeding disappear when her daughter was 10 months old.
"As a new mom, I was determined to ... nurse as long as possible, but when her teeth came in she started biting me," she explained.
"I talked to other moms, my doctor, and a lactation consultant in search of a solution, but nothing helped. I even tried hand-expressing my milk directly into her mouth, in a desperate hope that I could nurse without letting her little piranha teeth anywhere near me, but in the end, I decided it was time to wean."
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When asked about "breastfeeding mummies" during a concert, Adele took the opportunity to let her true feelings be known.
"You know what, the pressure on us is f--king ridiculous," the singer told the crowd.
She continued, "You can go f--k yourself, alright? Because it’s hard. Some of us can’t do it!…Some of my mates got post-natal depression from the way those midwives were talking. Idiots."
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